Feelings are one of the most basic senses of humans, the ability that helps to connect and communicate. What will you do without feelings?
Sometimes they can be good, other days bad. They can encourage as well as condemned. Enhanced and manipulated even, as through the usage of drugs and mind control respectively. Corrupted when carnal lust seeps in and healthy when strong optimism is available. Feelings can be real just they can also be fake. Feelings, as you can see, can be simple a moment, gets complex the next. It can either be mild or extreme, depending on its human host and the level of sanity in store.
Here's something that might be new for you: Feelings do not obey for countless instances in life.
When's the last time you ever seek to do the 'right' thing, only to be let down by the fact that you 'don't feel like doing it'? Won't this affect the number of procrastinations that could be avoided and the positive decisions that could be made?
Being an INFP myself means one of my greatest strength and unfortunately, weaknesses, lies in the way I attend my feelings. While it helps to spread a little compassion, too many times, following my feelings is causing me more hiccups when I really should be going with the core convictions in my heart. Everything, from work to relationships, boils down to feelings management as one of the key factors. Cos feelings aren't going to make you feel like a man and a warrior all the time, you gotta be ferocious in the unyielding perseverance, not to obey feelings which won't benefit in the long run.
So yes, the way it feels, we need to master our feelings.
2 comments:
Good post. very true...
Thanks :-)
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